Tuesday, July 20, 2010

Girls hate guys when
  • They ignore them. No girl likes to be ignored. It’s not like they want you to leave your work and run behind them. Girl likes it if you tell her politely that you have to rush at the moment but will take her out for a date the moment your work is done. However this does not in any way justify the time you ignore your girl to enjoy sports with your buddies.
  • They lack respect for them – be it their family, their job, their hobby or their fashion sense. No girl likes to be ridiculed about her work, career, fashion sense or even her make-up skills. Girls like guys who know how to respect them, because of the simple principle "If he can’t respect me, he can’t love me".
  • They take them for granted. Don't assume that she will be yours forever, you never know when you will get kick out by the others.
  • They lie to them and it really doesn’t matter when you come up with excuses like "I lied because I didn’t want to lose you" or "I lied because I didn’t want to hurt you". In case you lie, you are surely in for some big trouble.
  • They ogle at other girls and yes… it really doesn’t make the ogling any less annoying if it was done without their knowledge, behind their back. Sooner or later, she will find out!
  • They try and justify things with lame reasons like " I was just looking","We were only talking", a girl will know when you are talking to another girl with ulterior motives. 
  • They dressed sloppily for occasions. Especially during birthdays, parties, anniversaries etc.. Not telling you to dress like some fashionista, but at least some decent clothings please?
  • They compared them to other girls, especially if you are hooting for the other girl. So the next time you try and do that, be prepared for a wrath-attack or the ultimate silent treatment. And in case it’s your ex-girlfriend that you are comparing her to – then you are dead. A girl has every right to hate her boyfriend’s ex-girlfriends. 
  • They break their promises. Don't ever promise things that you can't promise cause it sucks when you had to break it.
And in case you might be wondering why most of the girls have an issue with their boyfriend's buddies is the fact that some guys tend to act like complete idiots when they are with their guy-friends. Endless hours of smoking, drinking and hooting while watching sports on television or indulging in a game of poker, leaves no room for the girl. Girls don’t mind guys spending time with their friends as long as the friends don’t start hogging all the time and attention.